Whatever our life circumstances, we're always free to choose which aspects of our experience we'll focus our attention on. I practice feeling grateful for what works in my life & for the synchronicity I call into it. For the rest, I've decided that it's not worth my obsessing about it. It may very well be important, but I keep it far from my ego that could be tempted to take it personally & waste my precious time + energy on drama.
I really love this decision I've made about my attitude. Almost every night, I ask my little girl what was her favorite moment in her day, & then I share mine. It's our way of declaring to the Universe what we want more of tomorrow.
And after a while of wearing the gratitude-glasses, we start to feel so blessed, we can feel our chests becoming more buoyant + expanded just by noticing the details of any moment. I am literally re-wiring my brain to be happy, contented & optimistic. It's all a matter of perception, so I don't really care about what others might think of me. I am actually acutely aware that this is MY experience after all & I'm responsible for it.
So I want to know, what brings you to a place of abundance + positivity during your day?